SETUP *

RULES *

1. Spin the wheel as many times as you would like, I’m sure he would love for them all to be done. SHE is allowed to skip 3 tasks and HE is not allowed to skip a single one. But also she makes the rules so it can change! This introduces you and him to many femdom kinks to see what each of you like!
2. He is to pamper and service you the entire time. If you ask for something such as a glass of wine he must get it or face punishment the same goes for if he refuses to do something or if he has any negative remarks about the game or task (make sure the punishment is something that benefits you, embarrasses him, or just something that entertains you!).
3. YOU CONTROL THE PHONE! Don’t let him see and keep him guessing. Unless it’s more fun to show him some things ;). The challenges are what they are, blame it on bosswife! If it’s a game without a lot of twists and surprises for him you can use the share feature on the site to start a private game. It will record every turn! Great for long distance, remembering which challenges you have already done, and to make sure no one’s cheating!

NOTES/HINTS *

• With gentle femdom the humiliation/degrading aspects can still be used but do it with words of encouragement and praise. It’s more lighthearted and fun! “You’re so cute like this, I love having you under my control, I love when your a good boy for me, etc.” If you’re new to this it can be tough but trust me he’s going to love everything you say. Just say it seriously and with confidence. If your hesitant to use humiliation (slut, bitch, whore) you can lighten it up by switching to (slutty boy/toy, cute little whore, etc.) but you shouldn’t be hesitant… it drives them absolutely nuts, trust me!
• Some of these can require going out of the house, if that’s the case make note of them and do it later that day to not interrupt your bedroom time.
• It is best practice for you/her to be in control of the phone to make these a surprise and keep him on his toes. Some of these tasks can be completed together while some can be completed by themselves. Have a piece of paper to write down the ones that you plan to do throughout the day/evening or the next day/weeklong/weekend.
• Sometimes I’ll set up his chores/tasks I want completed for the weekend. That way while the boys nap I can have my free show while he does the dishes naked or in panties hehe.
• Make sure once you are done in the bedroom you practice aftercare. This is support you give to your sub after a scene. After the playtime is done gauge his feelings on it as a whole or certain aspects by talking with him throughout the rest of the night/day about the stuff you had him doing. This is an important part of femdom. It can be very nerve racking and emotional to submit to someone else. Make sure to tell him how much you enjoyed it (My man loves this so I talk about it a lot. he’s all about my pleasure and sometimes gets self conscious so it makes him so happy to know that I enjoyed it!) Laugh about any things that went wrong, talk about the good and bad, just lighten the mood. Remember this is all for fun! Just make sure he knows you enjoy having fun with him like this!
• Gentle Femdom is really just all about encouragement! Use cute names and terms. It’s more loving. You’re letting/ordering him do a bunch of things and he will love it. instead or ordering he do it. You run the show, don’t forget that!