Revamped! This is my intro to Gentle Femdom or GFD! Compilation tasks/activities etc from multiple games with a GFD spin….Setup and Rules Below!
As always, you control the phone! Don’t let him see and keep him on his toes. Unless it’s more fun to show him some things ;)
Fun (Gentle) Femdom game! Use this game to get a taste of all different kinds of domination for you and your man. Taken from my original Femdom Game, this version is more GFD minded. If it’s your idea, don’t worry, a lot of guys fantasize about femdom. If it’s his idea, relax you’re going to do great and drive him absolutely wild! I didn’t know if I’d like dominating him when he brought it up but it’s honestly AMAZING. Just have fun with it!
Don’t forget to scroll down to “more by author” to see my other fun Femdom Games! Or follow the link
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For this game particularly I like to start right off the bat with a spin from one of my classic challenges. Especially if it’s your first time playing!
Start off with your sub showered, shaved and naked but before his shower…..
Take him to the closet, let him pick some slutty panties/lingerie for you to play in. Now tell him to shower while you get dressed. Put on whatever you want. Remember you run the show! When you hear his shower stop go in and lay his selection out on the counter/robe hook. Tell him tonight’s really about you and you think it’d be cuter if he had the sexy clothes on for you! If he hesitates tell him to put them on himself now! Be demanding!
He will be totally taken off guard by how spontaneous this game will be! (By now my hubby is quite used to it but we still get a kick out of playing it out. A lot of the challenges in these games have a version where he gets what he wants and one where it’s turned on him. Sometimes I give him his request, and sometimes I don’t! He never knows if it’s going to go his way or not!)
You can dress up how you please but it’s best to be in something very provocative. You can shower as well if you’d like or together. But he’s not allowed to touch! Or maybe just a little. Keep him waiting! If you do shower together save the surprise for after.
-RULES-
Spin the wheel at least 20-30 times or do all if you would like, I’m sure he would love for them all to be done. SHE is allowed to skip 3 tasks and HE is not allowed to skip a single one. But also she makes the rules so it can change! This introduces you and him to many femdom kinks to see what each of you like!
He is to pamper and service you the entire time. If you ask for something such as a glass of wine he must get it or face punishment the same goes for if he refuses to do something or if he has any negative remarks about the game or task (make sure the punishment is something that benefits you, embarrasses him, or just something that entertains you!).
-HINTS-
- With gentle femdom the humiliation/degrading aspects can still be used but do it with words of encouragement and praise. It’s more lighthearted and fun! “You’re so cute like this, I love having you under my control, I love when your a good boy for me, you better listen to me or I might have to spank you etc.” If you’re new to this it can be tough but trust me he’s going to love everything you say. Just say it seriously and with confidence. If your hesitant to use humiliation (slut, bitch, whore) you can lighten it up by switching to (slutty boy/toy, cute little whore, dirty little bitch etc.) but you shouldn’t be hesitant… it drives them absolutely nuts, trust me!
- Some of these can require going out of the house, if that’s the case make note of them and do it later that day to not interrupt your bedroom time.
- It is best practice for you/her to be in control of the phone to make these a surprise and keep him on his toes. Some of these tasks can be completed together while some can be completed by themselves. Have a piece of paper to write down the ones that you plan to do throughout the day/evening or the next day/weeklong/weekend.
- Sometimes I’ll set up his chores/tasks I want completed for the weekend. That way while the boys nap I can have my free show while he does the dishes naked or in panties hehe.
- Make sure once you are done in the bedroom you practice aftercare. This is support you give to your sub after a scene. After the playtime is done gauge his feelings on it as a whole or certain aspects by talking with him throughout the rest of the night/day about the stuff you had him doing. This is an important part of femdom. It can be very nerve racking and emotional to submit to someone else. Make sure to tell him how much you enjoyed it (My man loves this so I talk about it a lot. he’s all about my pleasure and sometimes gets self conscious so it makes him so happy to know that I enjoyed it!) Laugh about any things that went wrong, talk about the good and bad, just lighten the mood. Remember this is all for fun! Just make sure he knows you enjoy having fun with him like this!
- Gentle Femdom is really just all about encouragement! You’ll notice it’s very similar to my other femdom categories but there’s a lot more praise and encouragement heading in his direction. Use cute names and terms instead of bitch/whore/slave. It’s more loving. You’re letting him do a bunch of things instead or ordering he do it. (Hint you still have to order him to do some things. It’s gentle but it’s still FemDOM!) You still run the show, don’t forget that!
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