Femdom Date Ideas!
I wanted to make a wheel with a bunch of ideas for femdom style dates.
You should use number 1 as a kind of guide for how to behave for the rest of them or make it the starting point and let the rest build onto it!….
“Date Night! Take him out for dinner or drinks. Be ready and spring it on him when he gets in. Tell him to hurry up and get cleaned up. Pick out everything he’ll be wearing. EVERYTHING! Pick the place. Order his food/drinks for him. You Pay! Be bossy and lead. Drop some hints that you expect to get lucky for all the effort. Make sure you phrase it as you fucking him!… You’re basically role playing a “traditional” powerful man and treating him like a “trophy wife”. The whole night is so simple but he’s probably never had an experience even close to it! (Bonuses: Make him wear a thong under his clothes, something uncomfortable :)”
Hopefully I’ll be adding to it regularly! Some ideas are more things to do on/before/around the date but still fun! Combine them with another!
RULES *
- READ MY HINT BELOW ABOUT HAVING FUN!
- NO SKIPPING! (This is basically the only one of my games where you, the Domme, are going to have a real rule set in stone. This is more of a feel it out kind of introduction, so feel it out! Nothing in here is dangerous or insane. Try it, have fun with it, and talk about it! Be open!
- YOU CONTROL THE PHONE! Don’t let him see and keep him guessing. Unless it’s more fun to show him some things ;) or if he doesn’t believe you lol. The challenges are what they are, blame it on bosswife! If it’s a game without a lot of twists and surprises for him you can use the share feature on the site to start a private game. It will record every turn! Great for long distance, remembering which challenges you have already done, and to make sure no one’s cheating! (Once you’ve gotten comfortable or have completed all the items try moving on to the Intro Games.)
- IMPORTANT: The very first time you start this adventure tell him his very first task is to google “gentle femdom” and read it to you. Talk about it! Lookup “aftercare” while your at it. It’s important you both always comfort each other if needed and keep lines of communication wide open! (If he’s unaware and your using this to introduce the topic then make sure you are well researched on it! It’s your job to bring him into the fold and conduct yourself responsibly)
HINTS/ADVICE *
- Most of the ways people get started is with Gentle Femdom or GFD. This definitely made sense and worked best for us as well. This will focus on the following themes/kinks. Worship, Teasing, Orgasm Control, Edging, Fun Little Mind Games/Tricks, Anal Play, Mild Denial, Mild Embarassment/Humiliation, and overall bossy wife shit! But in a sweet way ;) He will be wrapped around your finger. You’ll love the power, especially seeing how much he loves it!
- HAVE FUN! I know I’m insane with caps lock but it’s important. DO NOT TAKE YOURSELVES TOO SERIOUSLY! There is going to be awkward and funny moments as you start exploring this. Don’t be afraid to laugh and talk about it! It’s all part of the fun and learning. What worked, what didn’t work etc. You will read it in every article you research and it is so true….Hubby and I had an great relationship but it has seriously skyrocketed to Amazing. We are so much closer, our communication is so much better, and we have SO much fun. Plus it’s sexy af ;P
- I basically hated dirty talk. (Notice the past tense) I found it a lot easier to use words of encouragement and praise. “You’re so cute like this, It’s so sexy having you under my control, I love when your a good boy for me, you better not be naughty or I might have to punish you” etc. This teasing was fun and we both still love it all of the time….The humiliation/degrading aspects can still be part of GFD (and we both had a ton of fun with them ;), it was like our favorite part lol) but do it with the same attitude of encouragement and praise. If your hesitant to use words like (slut, bitch, whore) like I was, just soften it up by switching to (my slutty boy/toy, my cute little whore, my horny little bitch etc.) It’s all about teasing, fun, and love with GFD! We were basically cracking up when I told him to put on panties for the first time. Then when I got just a little bit serious and told him he better do what he was told… he jumped right in! It’s all part of the fun and it will drive him absolutely nuts, trust me!
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