Fun Femdom game! Use this game to get a taste of all different kinds of domination for you and your man. If it’s your idea, don’t worry, a lot of guys fantasize about femdom. If it’s his idea, relax you’re going to do great and drive him absolutely wild! I didn’t know if I’d like dominating him when he brought it up but it’s honestly AMAZING. Just have fun with it!
-SETUP- Start off with your sub showered, shaved and naked (make him wear collar/outfit of your choice for added pleasure. Sometimes I make him start fully clothed. It’ll change soon enough!) He starts on his knees in front of you. He is to be degraded and on all fours at all times unless instructed otherwise.
You can dress up how you please but it’s best to be in something very provocative. You can shower as well if you’d like or together. But he’s not allowed to touch! Or maybe just a little. Keep him waiting!
-RULES- As always, you control the phone! Don’t let him see and keep him on his toes. Unless it’s more fun to show him some things ;)
- Do all sections at least once if you would like, and for the punishment at least one, but spin the wheel more times if needed. SHE is allowed to skip 3 tasks and HE is not allowed to skip a single one. But also she makes the rules so it can change! This introduces you and him to many femdom kinks to see what each of you like for example worship facesitting smothering pegging humiliation degradation feet and much more.
- If you’d like to start with a more gentle femdom the humiliation/degrading can be replaced with words of encouragement. “You’re so cute like this, I love having you under my control, I love when your a good boy for me, you better listen to me or I might have to spank you etc.” If you’re new to this it can be tough but trust me he’s going to love everything you say. Just say it seriously and with confidence. If your hesitant to use humiliation (slut, bitch, whore) you can lighten it up by switching to (slutty boy/toy, cute little whore, dirty little bitch etc.) but you shouldn’t be hesitant… it drives them absolutely nuts, trust me!
- ACT IT OUT! It can be soooo helpful to think of your dominant personality as a role play or acting. If you can’t picture yourself being a good dominant, think of a tv character or person in your life who would be a great dominatrix. Just think, what would they say? What would they do? How would they act, speak, tease?
- REMEMBER: Literally any task can be femdom. If you tell him to do it, and he’s expected to do it, it’s femdom! Tell him what you want and give him a kiss, grab/spank his ass, tug his hair, anything! I bet he’ll jump right on it with a little boner in his pants ;)
- Try to be as dominant as you can, even if you are having sex in a position where he does the action. Dominate verbally all the time too to keep him hot and for reminding him that he is your slave and that he is yours.
- Dirty talk (if you’ve played my other games you know I kind of hated it until I got some confidence. BEST TIP EVER: just narrate lol! “You like when I stroke you like this?” “Im going to let you go down on me” “I love when you moan like that” “You want more? Beg me ” “Do you like xxx..and who likes xxx… so what does that make you?… Say it!”
- Its nice too if you create random tasks in the middle of the session to see if he gets them or not and have fun, push him. If fe gets them you can give him a reward, if not you give him a punishment.
- He is to pamper and service you the entire time. If you ask for something such as a glass of wine he must get it or face punishment the same goes for if he refuses to do something or if he has any negative remarks about the game or task (make sure the punishment is something that benefits you, embarrasses him, or just something that entertains you!).
- HAVE FUN! I know I’m insane with caps lock but it’s important. DO NOT TAKE YOURSELVES TOO SERIOUSLY! There is going to be awkward and funny moments as you start exploring this. Don’t be afraid to laugh and talk about it! It’s all part of the fun and learning. What worked, what didn’t work etc.
- Make sure once you are done in the bedroom you practice aftercare. This is support you give to your sub after a scene. After the playtime is done gauge his feelings on it as a whole or certain aspects by talking with him throughout the rest of the night/day about the stuff you had him doing. This is an important part of femdom. It can be very nerve racking and emotional to submit to someone else. Make sure to tell him how much you enjoyed it (My man loves this so I talk about it a lot. he’s all about my pleasure and sometimes gets self conscious so it makes him so happy to know that I enjoyed it!) Laugh about any things that went wrong, talk about the good and bad, just lighten the mood. Remember this is all for fun! Just make sure he knows you enjoy having fun with him like this!
- Some of these can require going out of the house, if that’s the case make note of them and do it later that day to not interrupt your bedroom time.