Welcome

If a couple is just beginning to explore getting kinky or adding some kink elements to their sexual experiences, it's important to approach it with open communication, trust, and a focus on consent. Here are some suggestions to consider:

Have an open conversation

Start by having an open and honest conversation with your partner about your desires, boundaries, and fantasies. Discuss what aspects of kink appeal to you both and what you'd like to explore together. This will help establish a foundation of trust and ensure that you're on the same page.

Educate yourselves

Take the time to educate yourselves about different aspects of kink, BDSM, and related activities. Read books, articles, and online resources that provide information on safety, consent, and various practices. This knowledge will help you make informed decisions and engage in activities responsibly.

Start with light bondage

Bondage is a common entry point for many couples exploring kink. Consider using soft restraints, such as silk scarves or velcro cuffs, to restrain your partner's wrists or ankles. This can add an element of power play and sensory deprivation.

Introduce sensory play

Sensory play involves stimulating the senses to enhance pleasure and arousal. Experiment with different sensations, such as using feathers, ice cubes, or silk against the skin. Blindfolds or earplugs can be used to heighten other senses.

Try roleplay

Engaging in roleplay can be a fun way to explore power dynamics and fantasies. Choose roles or scenarios that excite you both and act them out. It could involve playing a dominant-submissive dynamic, teacher-student, or any other scenario that interests you.

Experiment with spanking or light impact play

If you're interested in impact play, start with gentle spanking using your hands or paddles specifically designed for this purpose. Remember to start slowly and communicate about the intensity and sensations to ensure comfort and consent.

Use sex toys

Introduce sex toys into your play to add extra sensations and stimulation. Experiment with items like vibrators, blindfolds, nipple clamps, or light impact toys like floggers or ticklers. Ensure that any toys used are specifically designed for sexual activities and are used safely.

Establish safe words and signals

Before engaging in any kinky activities, establish a system of safe words or signals that allow you or your partner to communicate boundaries and comfort levels. Safe words or signals provide a way to pause or stop activities if needed.

Take it slow and check-in

Start slowly and gradually increase intensity as you explore. Regularly check in with your partner during and after play sessions to ensure that everyone is comfortable, enjoying themselves, and that boundaries are respected.

Reflect and communicate

After engaging in kink activities, take time to reflect on the experiences together. Discuss what worked well, what didn't, and what you might want to try in the future. Effective communication is essential for ongoing exploration and the growth of your shared experiences.

Remember, the key is to always prioritize consent, communication, and mutual respect. Take your time, be open to trying new things, and only engage in activities that you and your partner are comfortable with.

Give it a try

Simple fun for playful adults. Roll the dice, or give the sex wheel a spin to find out what excites you and your partner.

You'll find the following activities here, are you intrigued?

1. Hair Pulling
2. Light Spankings
3. Naughty Language
4. Scarf or Tie
5. Sir or Madam
6. Bosswife
7. Daddy