Here are some simple tasks for a couple beginning their femdom journey. Most of these tasks are able to be completed with general household items if you don't have any proper equipment. Make sure you've agreed safe words before playing.
Rules for her to read and explain to him where necessary:
- He should never see the phone.
- Don't explain the tasks to him. If a task requires you to tie him up and them do something to him, tie him up without telling him what comes next. Don't tell him how many times you'll spank him either.
- He should start the game naked, shaved, and kneeling by your feet with eyes lowered, knees spread wide, toes pointed and hands folded behind his back. This should be his default position in between tasks.
- You can dress how you want. It can be sexy or comfortable.
- You're in charge and can change the tasks however you want. If you want to spank him twice as many times as the tasks states do it. If you want to repeat an earlier task do it.
- He can't skip any, except if a safe word is used. You can skip as many as you want, but if it's something new try it out. You might find out you actually like it.
- He must address you by title. E.g. Mistress, Goddess, Princess, Ma'am, etc. He must use this honorific after every sentence. If he forgets punish him.
- You must pick a new name for him. I like derogatory names as it separates my slave in the game from my partner. E.g. slave, slut, bitch, whore, sissy, worm, maggot, scum, faggot, freak. He must refer to himself in the third person by this name e.g "May your slut...".
- He must not cum. This game is all about foreplay and your enjoyment. After you're done you can finish him off if he's earned it. If he cums without permission lock him in chastity until the next time you play.
- While playing he has to serve you however you want. Order him to get you drinks and whatever else you desire.
- If he fails to complete a task to your satisfaction, punish him. Spank him, hit his balls, slap him, etc.
- He isn't allowed to say no (excluding safe words). Use this to your advantage by asking "Would you like me to spank you five more times?" etc.
Tips:
As this is likely early on in your femdom journey these are some tips that helped me get more comfortable.
- He's going to enjoy obeying you so don't worry about his comfort. He's got safe words if he reaches his limits.
- Don't say please/thank you. Simply give orders. Try using shorter sentences. For example rather than say "Can you kneel over there, please?" just point and say "Kneel".
- Dirty talk is hard for beginners. I found it helped to simply describe what was happening while using a derogatory name. E.g If you're sitting on his face "Keep licking, slut.". If you're squeezing his balls, "I'm enjoying your squeals, bitch."or "I can't believe you're enjoying this, freak". You can also move the burden of dirty talk onto him. Before starting a task, make him beg for it. E.g. "Tell me why I should let a worm like you lick my pretty feet?" and then, once he's answered, "I don't believe you, bitch. Beg me." Often he'll end up surprising you with what he'll say on his own.
- If you're feeling self conscious or lacking confidence make him wear a blindfold. I found it helped me a lot at the start when he couldn't see me.
- A game like this is to find the things you like. You can bring them into your daily life. Men are simple. He'll be so excited if you randomly order him to strip one evening and use him as a footrest or randomly grab his balls and squeeze.
- He's probably stronger than you so use your body weight. For example when you're tying him up sit/kneel on his back.
- After you've finished playing, cuddle up and talk about the game. Find out what he liked and disliked. Talk about what you liked and disliked.
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